1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, I have now started loving myself.

2. I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.

3. I have stopped bargaining with vegetable & fruit vendors. A few pennies more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.

4. I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.

5. I stopped telling the elderly that they’ve already told that story many times. The story makes them walk down memory lane & relive their past.

6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

7. I give compliments freely & generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me. And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say “Thank You.”

8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.

9. I walk away from people who don’t value me. They might not know my worth, but I do.

10. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.

11. I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.

12. I have learned that it’s better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will never be alone.

13. I have learned to live each day as if it’s the last. After all, it might be the last.

14. I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself. Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just choose to be!

A man slaughtered a big cow, lit the grill and said to his daughter.

“Daughter, call our relatives, friends, and neighbours to eat with us… let us feast!”

His daughter took to the street and started shouting.

“Please help us put out a fire at my Dad’s house!”.

After a few moments, a small group of people came out and the rest acted like they didn’t hear the cry for help.

Those who came ate and drank until late.

The stunned father turned to his daughter and said to her.

“The people who came I barely know them, some I had never seen them before, so where are our relatives, friends, and neighbours ?”.

The daughter said.

“Those who came out of their homes came to help us put out a fire in our house and not for the party.

These are the ones who deserve our generosity and hospitality”.

Conclusion:

Those who don’t help you during your struggle, shouldn’t eat with you at your victory party!!