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12 Life Lessons People Learn Too Late

12 Life Lessons People Learn Too Late

There are so many events in our lives that teach us very important life lessons and change our personality completely. Just like that there are some things that we don’t learn in time, and when we realize, the time had passed and we suffer a lot. Here we are going to discuss some points that if learned on time, can save us from suffering.

1- Everything is Temporary

The very first thing you need to learn is that neither personality nor blessing is permanent in your life. When you understand this, you stop forcing people to stay in your life and let the person leave who wants to leave, you no longer force any relationship.

This makes you very strong mentally because when you stop forcing people to stay in your life then no other person can make you happy or sad. You become the only reason for your happiness and sadness. In short, you become an Autophile.

2- Life isn’t Fair

Secondly, you have to absorb that nobody is granted a perfect life, you have to make it perfect. Because when we start expecting every blessing on our breakfast table without any hustle, we are just fooling ourselves. The life we want is on the other side of the hard work that we don’t want to do.

So you have to stop expecting and start working. You should start working on your imperfect life to make it perfect because only you can mold your life into the shape that you expect from a miracle.

3- Beneath Anger is Always Fear

The third step is to control your emotions before your emotions control you. Especially you need to control your anger that ultimately leads to fear, and this fear leads to negativity. When negativity overcomes your mind, your brain just stops working which is followed by a disaster ahead.

When you have control over your anger, you can tackle any challenging situation calmly and the element of versatility adds up to your personality. Calm brains are actually the genius ones.

4-The biggest Risk is taking no Risk

In this current modern era where the world has become a global village and life is getting advanced day by day, it has become compulsory to take risks. If you try to examine the life of successful people deeply, you should come to know that every successful person is an action taker.

Though there is a chance to lose if you take the risk, if you are not taking a risk, you are already at a loss and this loss is way more harmful than the first one. If you are not taking risks and staying still, the world will crush you and move forward. Now it’s all up to you.

5- A lifetime isn’t forever

Another very important thing that you need to keep in your mind is that this life is not permanent. This helps you to make your decisions wisely and to set your priorities accordingly. And we all know that life is all about setting priorities and making the right decisions.

You should set goals, make investments and, build relationships keeping the time in mind that you have. Especially you have to invest your time wisely which is more important than money and is non-renewable.

6- You Make Things bigger Just by Overthinking

Overthinking is a very vast topic because its domain is very wide and every person is suffering from this disease today. Overthinking is the second name of negativity. Thinking is a good thing until it is analytical. But Overthinking is totally opposite to analytical thinking.

When you overthink, you see a minor hindrance like a very big blockage and you instantly lose motivation and ultimately quit your goal. So the thing you need to do is to take the problems easily and try to solve them with planning with a cool mindset.

7- It’s doesn’t matter what people say and feel about you

The biggest life lesson to learn in time is “How to overcome the fear of being judged?” Because when you start thinking about other people’s perception of you, You become demoralized and might start hating yourself. This causes you to feel bad inside.

So you have to learn that what other people think about you is none of your business. You just have to walk in your lane irrespective of people’s thoughts. Once you achieve your goals, people’s thoughts change automatically.

8- Happiness is a Choice

Another life lesson to learn is that happiness is your own choice. It’s only you who can make yourself happy. Ninety percent of happiness stuff comes from your inside and you can run your emotions yourself. If you expect some other person to come into your life and make you happy, you are never going to be happy.

On the other hand, if you start ignoring other people and start spending time with yourself, happiness starts surrounding you automatically. You can make other people happy only when you yourself are happy. So start spending time with yourself from today and see how your anxious life changes to a joyful and happy life.

9- You can’t satisfy your greed

This point is related to the nature of every human. This is human nature that the bowl of a man’s avarice can never be filled. You should learn to satisfy yourself with every blessing that you have and work hard to achieve that you don’t have.

Because there is no full stop to a man’s desires. You can’t be perfect until you are competing yourself with other people in fact this will increase your greed. The only way to tackle this situation is to compete yourself not with other people but with your past version. If you are better from your past, you are on the right track.

10- No One Can Feel Your Pain

Another very big life lesson that is indirectly related to expectations is that nobody can feel your current situation. The only person who can understand your situation is one who has passed through that situation. If there is no such person in your life, you can’t expect from life to give that person or expect a person to understand your situation which is impossible.

No one can live your life just like you can’t live someone’s life. Everybody has his own life problems which he has to solve alone without some other person’s help. So be a brave fighter and say yes to challenges.

11- Your Knowledge is Never Complete

The life lesson that is very important to learn today is that your knowledge is always incomplete. Every human is in the learning phase till death because life teaches you a new lesson at every step.

So never assume that your knowledge is complete because this is the statement of fools. Be a good listener and try to seek knowledge from every person you meet every day.

12- Our Mind is Our Best Friend And The Worst Enemy

The last and final life lesson is about our mind. As mentioned earlier that you are the only reason for every incident that happens to you. Your mindset is the element that can make you either a winner or a loser.

If your mind motivates you to think big and explore things and helps you to fight with every challenge that comes on the way, your mind is your best friend and will make you a victorian soon. But if your mind discourages and demotivates you just because of other people’s negative opinions, your mind is playing the role of a foe. You need to change your mind if you wanna be a winner.12 Life Lessons People Learn Too Late

12 Life Lessons People Learn Too Late

  • 1- Everything is Temporary
  • 2- Life isn’t Fair
  • 3- Beneath Anger is Always Fear
  • 4-The biggest Risk is taking no Risk
  • 5- A lifetime isn’t forever
  • 6- You Make Things bigger Just by Overthinking
  • 7- It’s doesn’t matter what people say and feel about you
  • 8- Happiness is a Choice
  • 9- You can’t satisfy your greed
  • 10- No One Can Feel Your Pain
  • 11- Your Knowledge is Never Complete
  • 12- Our Mind is Our Best Friend And The Worst Enemy

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What is that nobody tolds you about adults life?

Nobody tells you that life will really get tough at some point in life and you are left alone to fight your battle.
Nobody tells you that the more you grow, the more you need to be responsible.
Nobody tells you that it is easy to make friends when you are still young, but get difficult when you grow up.
Nobody tells that you when you have a full-time job, you make money but you might not get enough time to enjoy it.
Nobody tells you that alcohol, sex, and drugs can be destructive.
Nobody tells you that divorce and baby mamas are expensive and destructive, so marry your best friend
Nobody tells you that empathy, self-confidence, self-awareness,social skills, and motivation are what you really need to grow and network in life.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of stereotype people.
Nobody tells you that your best friend might be your worst enemy.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of jealous people.
Nobody tells you that unsafe sex is dangerous.
Nobody tells you that your bill comes first.
Nobody tells you that your mom might be jealous of your wife. So please don’t keep both your wife and mom under one roof.
Nobody tells you that waking up around 5 am should become a habit and lights out should be 10 pm.
Nobody tells you that health care is expensive, so take care of it and do exercises.
Nobody tells you that attitude is everything in life.
Nobody tells you that saving money will never make you a millionaire, taking risks and opportunity are necessary.
Nobody loves to talk about death but it is inevitable
Nobody tells you to live, love and laugh because life is too short.
Nobody tells you that happiness is free and it’s not out there but in you. Be happy!

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What are some of confident hacks?

1:Deepen your voice as much as possible while speaking.

2:Be loud and clear. Never mumble stuff. Even if you’re telling the right thing, talking with a low volume makes you look like an unsure person.

3:While walking, always stay upright with your chest facing forward.

4:Always maintain eye contact while speaking or delivering a speech. Looking elsewhere shows doubt and nervousness.

5:Never fidget with things like keys etc. or play with your fingers. All of this is a sign of nervousness.

6:Always make sure that you have a natural smile on your face when you’re discussing something casual. It’ll make you look more comfortable.Use as much space as possible. The more the space you use, the more confidence you demonstrate.

7:Make sure you make relevant hand and body gestures while delivering speeches. Never stay stiff.

8:Always be well groomed above all, let go of your fears. They are your main demons. Never care about what others would think and voice your opinion.

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Financial rules you will never break🤭

Investing Don’ts:

-Don’t invest in anything that you don’t understand. Yourself. Not because someone sold it to you or because others are doing it.
-Don’t pay high fees for investment products unless you know why the product is worth it. Many are not.
-Don’t assume that someone giving you financial advice has their incentives aligned with you doing well. Most people in finance can (and sometimes do!) make a lot of money while not adding value. It is not that they set out to purposefully do this, it is just that the way they get compensated frequently lacks alignment with maximizing your financial well-being.
-Don’t fall victim to behavioral marketing tactics. Robert Cialdini’s Psychology of Influence is an excellent book to read to understand how they work. Also, check out this article that may help you learn how to practice behavioral defense: Behavioral Defense in Decision Making
-Don’t focus on the short-term, allow yourself to be unduly influenced by the financial news media, or let news about the market or the economy affect your long-term investing strategy.
Investing Do’s:

-Do save as much as you can consistently from an early age. Compounding works best when you start early.
-Do have an emergency cash reserve to cover 3–9 months of expenses before you begin investing. It will help you not be a forced seller of your long-term investments when circumstances change unexpectedly.
-Do start with a low-cost, passive investing strategy as your default option. Only deviate if you know exactly why that makes sense for you.
-Do focus on the long-term. As Benjamin Graham famously said, “In the short-term the market is a voting machine, but in the long-term it is a weighing machine.” What he meant is that securities can trade at any price in the short-term based on people’s opinion, but in the long-term the markets are pretty good at properly valuing assets and cash flows.
-Do match the time horizon of your investments with when you will need the money. Investments in stocks should ideally be made with a time horizon of 5+ years, with a minimum of 3. If you mis-match the duration of your investments vs. when you will need the money, you run the risk of being a forced seller at a temporary market low.

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